I wrote this last year and it still stands true today —
Ummm…I won’t just sit back and be quiet! The person I was before all this is the person I am today. It took me years to find my voice and I am going to use it to stand for what I believe in. I will not silence my voice to please others when my daughters are looked at differently than I am just because of their skin color, my best friends are black males and my kids father is a black man and I pray for all of them and every other black man and woman in America that they realize #BlackLivesMatter..Period.
Yes, ALL lives matter. I matter. YOU matter. WE matter. BUT until BLACK lives matter we cannot say ALL LIVES MATTER because that is not the truth.
As a white woman, I have no idea how it feels to be black. I can sympathize from what I have seen happen to those closest to me, but I cannot empathize because my skin color is not hated upon every day. They do not watch me closely when I go into a store thinking I’m going to steal something. I don’t get pulled over and shot at just for being me. Although I wasn’t born into the privelidged life and money has always been kinda funny and I’ve had my share of struggles, my skin color makes me privelidged. I don’t have to worry each moment that my father or brother will get shot at the hands of those who are supposed to protect our community. The sad reality of our society is what my three beautiful daughters who I love with every inch of me will face these facts and have to worry (already do) about their father who is a black man and their 3 brothers who are young now, but will one day be black men in America.
Yes, this is a racial problem that started wayyyyyyyy before the last two murders and is happening every day regardless of whether it was videotaped or not. To conquer the hatred we must come together. Killing innocent cops is NOT the answer and there are good cops out there who believe in the oath they took to protect and serve. Each of them has a family and kids that love them and killing them only destroys more lives and makes things worse.
We must join together to start supporting one another and creating positivity in the world and in our communities. It’s action time not sit back and look at social media all day feeling bad time. If you want things to change, then it’s on YOU. And ME. And every other person to take a stand for what’s right. Our country is about to go to war within its own borders and WE are the only one who can change that. Stop talking and start taking positive, intentional action. Go to a rally, but instead of creating a riot protest in peace. Start a black owned business. Support black owned businesses. Eat produce from black owned farms. Stop feeding the pockets of already rich CEOS by purchasing expensive shoes and purses and save your money to get off government assistance. Keep on saving and buy your family a home. Educate those around you and spread LOVE in your own communities. You are the light that your community and family needs. Do not dim your light, but shine brightly for them to see the love, strength, peace and knowledge that you bring to the table to support them on their journeys.
I repeat…I will not silence my voice on issues I believe in just because it makes people uncomfortable. I love everyone and pray for each of you even those who disagree with me.
YOU are enough. PERIOD. Stand in your power to positively affect change in the world and have a blessed day. 💖💖💖